Steve died last week.
I met Steve on the day I first attempted windsurfing. I was uphauling an old Original Windsurfer, pulling the uni out of the board and jabbing it into my shins again and again, but I had a great time anyway. When I was finished, walking out of the water with bleeding legs and a big grin, this guy walked up to me and said “A man after my own heart. I’m Steve.”
We started sailing together in 1992 as members of a share house on the Little Peconic. By the end of that year we declared the house to the “The Puffin House”, and The Peconic Puffin newsletter began as a weekly in 1993 for eleven years. Steve is the only person, including me, to have a copy of every issue.
He became my windsurfing mentor…in a group of well meaning waterstart-blast-crash speed crazies he was interested in jibing (the story is told in The Legend of Frank and Lauralee…Frank who we lost earlier this year.) By 1994 he was my best friend, and things stayed that way for three decades. We sailed from sharehouses together, then when he bought his own place on the water for his young family he rented a room to me and my girlfriend (now wife of 24 years), and after a dozen years of that my wife and I bought a place close to them.
By and by I learned to jibe (thank you Dasher) and Steve and I began pursuing any and all manner of freestyle and refined technique with Andy Brandt and ABK. We were disciples for whom nothing was too crazy, particularly in light wind. We weren’t particularly good at it, but we had the best times.
Over the years the personal geography changed, and we went from seeing each other weekly to a couple times per year, with covid really throwing a damper on things. But we got to sail together for the first time in ages about six weeks ago…the blog post I did doesn’t really capture its importance, but of course I thought we had many more sessions in our future. We’re past due for a trip to Hatteras, what would have been our 15th Pamlico Pilgrimage. That will never happen now. Nor will we catch another Mets game. Nor will I watch him give away his darling daughters should the days come when they get married.
There will be no more days together. We had a lot of good ones.
(The top photo is circa 1996. We are in the middle of nowhere on the Delmarva Peninsula, getting gasoline on the way to the Outer Banks. Note Steve's puffin t shirt. The bottom pic is from 1994.)
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